Sunday, February 12, 2017

Be Careful When You Hug

Quite a while ago, back when Elizabeth was 3 1/2 years old, we were waiting for a flight at an airport terminal.  Elizabeth recognized my jeans and sweater, and gave my leg a big hug.  The only problem was that though the jeans and sweater were similar, Elizabeth gave the big hug to a stranger.  The guy seemed reasonably nice, so it was no big deal, but Elizabeth was stunned and mortified.  She went into full-on panic mode, and was inconsolable for several minutes.

Out of the blue this morning, Elizabeth brought it up.

"Remember a long time ago when we were at the airport, and I hugged a stranger because I thought it was you?  I was really scared and I cried a lot."

"Yes, I remember."

"Do you know why I cried so much?"

"Because you thought the man was me?"

"No!  I cried because I thought that then I was going to need to fall in love with him, and I didn't want to fall in love with him!"





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